Truly amazing. Photo of an angel?

This weekend a 10 yr old boy died of an asthma attack. The picture below was taken on his family's farm right after the funeral twee days later. Noticed the white image on the right? Look at the close up on the second picture below. The family believe it is the boy's spirit. Another strange thing happened. After he died, his mother tried to call his father on his cell phone while he was busy working with his tractor on the lands. He didn't hear the phone ring but the tractor suddenly started to smoke, so he had to stop and only then he heard the cell phone ringing. Afterwards the smoke was gone!

Handle Bad Situations with Psychology - The Stalker

Many women experienced bad situations at one or other stage of their lives, whether it's a boss harassing them at  the workplace, a stranger stalking them or an ex refusing to let go. Whatever the case, it's usually creating fear. And that's exactly what the stalker needs to feel in control: fear.

The bad news is legally there isn't much one can do to stop a stalker. If you try to report him at the police they will ask you if you have evidence, which in most cases you won't have because a stalker can make your life a living hell without getting near you. He can follow you, which is not against the law. He can make calls from a phone booth and there's no tracing him. He can leave dead animals on your lawn and, unless there was an eye witness, there's no way you can proof it was him.

The good news is, in many cases you can beat him at his own game. Climb in his head for a while. He feels humiliated, betrayed and angry because of the rejection. He hates you for treating him like a pest and making him feel inadequate and undesired. He wants to take revenge and make you pay for the humiliation, and the only way he can do it is by stalking you and feeding off the knowledge that you live in fear for him.

So, whether it's a stranger or a co-worker, give him what he want. Kindness, respect and friendliness. If you see his car behind you, don't start racing  to get away from him. Or if you notice him somewhere while unlocking your door, don't try to ignore him or hurry to get inside. In both cases, look straight at him and wave at him, smiling as friendly as you can.

The ideal situation is not to let a stalker know you are aware of the fact that he's stalking you, because if you act as if nothing's wrong you are taking the power away from him, especially if you're treating him nicely. If you bump into him on the street or in a shop, or he's forcing himself onto you at work, be friendly, ask how he is en then start a conversation with him. Tell him all about your problems, and do in boring detail. Don't give him the opportunity to participate. Just chat on and on and on. There's no greater passion killer than a woman talking non-stop about household chores, cute children and cuter pets. Do this every time he comes near you and I'll guarantee you won't have to wait long before he will flee every time he catches sight of you!

If your stalker is your boss, you can use other tactics like eating lots of garlic upfront and make sure he gets a whiff of your breathe when you are near him. Another tactic that will work is to stop shaving your armpits and not using antiperspirant. Hairy armpits with a sweaty smell will kill most would-be lovers' passion just there and then!

Now, lets assume it's your ex who's refusing to let go. You can turn the tables around by pretending that you are considering a reconciliation. Tell him you'd  never thought you'd missed him so much. And then YOU become the stalker. Call him hundred times a day, especially at work or in the early morning hours when he's sound asleep. And pretend to be very suspicious. Ask him if there's another woman with him. Accuse him of lying to you, saying you'd heard a woman's voice in the background. Follow him when possible, pretending to be discrete, but doing it so amateurishly that he sees you. Search through his pockets for 'evidence' that he's 'cheating' on you, read all the messages on his cell phone, ask about every number on it. Sooner of later you're going to drive him nuts and that will be the end of his 'love' for you.

To sum up, instead of becoming a victim, take control of the situation by offering the stalker a much less attractive and overly eager 'prey' and thus denying him the pleasure of scaring the hell out of you!

I just love this Martha Stewart vs Maxine emails!

To keep potatoes from budding,  place an apple in the bag with the potatoes   Buy Hungry Jack mashed potato mix.  Keeps in the pantry for up to a year.   When a cake recipe calls for flouring the baking pan,  use a bit of the dry cake mix instead and  there won't be any white mess on the outside of the cake.   Go to the bakery!  Hell, they'll even decorate it for you!     Wrap celery in aluminum foil when putting in the refrigerator and it will keep for weeks. Celery?  Never heard of it!     Cure for headaches: take a lime, cut it in half and  rub it on your forehead. The throbbing will go away.   Take a lime, mix it with tequila,  chill and drink!   All your pains go away!   Don't throw out all that leftover wine.  Freeze into ice cubes for future use  in casseroles and sauces.   Leftover wine???????   HELLO!!!!!! Lastly, if you don 't forward this to 1 of your friends within the next 5 minutes,  your belly button will unscrew  and your butt will fall off.

I'm so grateful this morning

My 9yr old grandson went with his grandfather for the holidays. This morning, on their way back, I received a call from my ex, they just had an accident. He crashed into a big trailer. The impact was so big that the car is a total wreck. My grandson went through the windshield and fell on the roadside. He only lost a tooth and has a couple of cuts and bruises! If that isn't a sign of God's mercy, I don't know what is. No one's suppose to survive a crash like that! God must have sent one of his angels to carry my grandson on his wings.

Praise the Lord. What could have been a very black day in my life has become one of thankfulness.

What makes a person popular?

I think being considerate is the single most important characteristic when it comes to popularity. But then it must be genuine, not because you want to gain something from it.

Rather be early for an appointment than late. I know our celebrity divas think they own the right to be late, but even for them it's a sign of contempt and nothing to be proud of. If you don't have a good reason for being late, the message you send to the one who has to wait for you is: 'This is how little I care for you.'

Ask your domestic helper or the cleaner at your work place about her of his family, and listen because you have to follow it up by inquiring again at a later stage:  'How's Sonja's broken leg doing now?'

Don't gossip maliciously about people because that makes you a worse person than the one your are smearing. A golden rule is: Don't say anything about a person unless you are willing to say it in his or her face. And even then, ask yourself: what am I going to gain from hurting this person?

In heavy traffic or in a long row in a bank or anywhere else, give people a gap. You will make their day and you will feel good about yourself.

Be there for your friends, family and co-workers when they are experiencing tough times. You don't necessarily have to give something, just let them know you are there if they need to talk.

If you borrow something from someone, whether it's a book, a DVD or a container, give it back! There's nothing so annoying than lending out your stuff and then have to struggle to get it back again.

When driving somewhere, always be on the lookout for old people walking, sometimes with heavy parcels. Give them a lift and ask if you can take them for shopping the next time.

Never take people for granted, whether it's your parents, siblings or friends. They all deserve to be treated with respect and consideration.

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Yeeaah, I'm a millionaire!!!

Wishful thinking.

Ever tried making money online? Well, I have, still trying to, but not to become a millionaire any more, just to get back the fortune I have spent in vain. (Which reminds me: have to remember to ask Blogger if one can implement a donation box on this site!)

Now, the irony of this money making business is that everyone tries to convince you that if you buy the book they are promoting, you will get rich real quick. And sucker that I am, I fall for it time and again - only to be left with a link filled pamphlet telling me the same story than all the others:  just promote this book and you'll get rich. It's like a pyramid scheme. In the end there are thousands of opportunists sitting with books they can't get rid of.

My father once told me about a man who placed an ad in a news paper, asking a substantial  amount for his 'secret' to get rich fast and without any investment. My father ordered this 'secret' and when he go it, it says: Just do what I did, place an ad like mine! This is what this modern money making schemes remind me of. One big fat lie!

Oh well, I won't give up. Not until have my money back. Yeah, I know, I will probably end up dirt poor and still haven't found that golden 'secret'.
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When do you know you're old?

Well, for starters, when you're making lists for everything and can't remember what you've done with the lists.

When, after shopping, you report your car as stolen, just to discover it's still in the garage when you get home. And no, you really can't remember taking the bus!

When the only time you're touching your husband's groin is when you're looking for your misplaced glasses.

When collecting the news paper is the highlight of your day.

When you found your lost keys in the ice compartment of the refrigerator.

When you arrive at the neighbors for the party they've invited you to, just to find out it was a month ago.

When you discover on an outing the reason why people are staring at you is because you have forgotten your skirt after putting on your petticoat.

When a romantic moment between you and your spouse means counting the liver spots on each others hands.

When you cut holes in your shoes to relieve the pressure on your calluses.

So, happy old age!
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Gray vs Silver

I prefer silver above gray.  Gray is, well, gray. Dull, colorless, unimaginative and  disconsolate. Buildings are gray. Men's suits are gray. The sky on cloudy days is gray. The winter landscape is gray. Tombstones are gray.

Silver, on the other hand, is soft and shiny. The moon is silver. Dark clouds are outlined by silver. Halos are silver. And let's not forget, coins are made of silver!

So, please take note, I'm not gray-blonde, I'm silver-blonde!

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Breast Cancer vs Dairy Products

According to a prof Jane Plant who had breast cancer, she only cut dairy product out of her diet, and after only days the lump in her breast has shrinked. A couple of weeks later there was no sign of cancer in her breast.

If your take in consideration that the Chinese don't consume dairy product, and that only 1 out of 10,000 Chinese women die of breast cancer while in Britain 1 out of 12 women die of it, it make sense. If you want to read the complete report of this womans miraculous recovery, you can go to my website. Just click here You can also order her book from Amazon.com

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The biker, his harley and his girlfriend

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Weight loss in a healthy manner

Let your brain do the slimming

The feeling of feat and desperation after failing yet another diet is no stranger to most 
overweight people. Usually you kick off with much enthusiasm, convinced that you have found the ideal diet this time. You follow it to the letter and are encouraged when you start losing weight. But it doesn’t last too long before the cravings begin and, no matter how hard you fight against it, in the end you give in to binge eating again.

What makes matters worse is that every time you failed, you end up with more kilos than you have started with. It’s the same pattern all over again, like so many times before. You are left with feelings of depression and disgust. You hate yourself for being weak and you hate food for being so important yet so destructive in your life. You hate dieting and being fat.

The sad truth is that diets only work as long as you follow them and the reason why it’s so hard to stick to a diet is because your brain is fighting you every step of the way when you are on a diet. It goes into ‘survival mode’ the moment you start dieting, thus slowing down your metabolism and ‘saving’ your fat for the hunger that is to come.

That’s why the best way of losing weight permanently is first of all to quit dieting. 

Secondly, stop regarding food as your enemy. And thirdly, don’t obsess about your weight or food. Instead, start giving your brain the ‘right’ messages. Look at it this way: your brain is like the hard drive of a computer, and your thoughts and feelings are the data you feed it. By thinking negatively you are programming your brain for failure. And as long as you continue doing so it will execute this ‘order’.

No matter what you eat, whether it’s something healthy or junk food, enjoy it. The secret is to savor every bite you eat. Don’t gobble it down without tasting it. You will be amazed how much quicker you are going to feel sated. And once in the habit of eating this way weight loss will be inevitable and will become automatic and effortless. You will simply crave less food and healthier food. Your metabolism will speed up end you will become very efficient at burning fat.

Eat whatever you like, but make a point of including something nutritious with every meal. 

A deficiency of nutrients will result in your feeling hungry and tired, no matter how many hamburgers, pies or chocolate cake you eat. An important tip: When you eat a fruit, start your meal with it. Then your system will absorb all of the nutrients. Eating it afterward will result in acid forming in your stomach that will destroy most of the nutrients.

Don’t ever allow yourself to get hungry. Eat 5 or 6 small meals a day instead of 1 or 2 big ones. This way your brain will get the message of abundance and you will never feel hungry 

while your metabolism will speed up. Most importantly, don’t skip breakfast. If you are not used to eating in the morning, eat at least one fruit. Another tip: use a small plate. This will trick your brain into thinking that you are eating more than you actually do. So, it will not go into survival mode. Also, use a small cake fork so that you get into the habit of taking small bites.

Finally: look at naturally thin people. They don’t have a dysfunctional relationship with 
food; they never talk about it constantly or care what or how much they eat. Yet, they are thin. That’s because they are in perfect harmony with their brain!